Summer Camp Send Off,Is Your Child Ready?
Even though we haven’t put our skies and parkas away from Spring Break, moms and dads across the state are gearing up for Summer Camp. But before you get out the bug spray and dust off the sleeping bag, parents should take some time to prepare for the summer send-off, especially if this is your child’s first Summer Camp adventure.
Although the American Camping Association (ACA) suggests ages 7-8 as a guideline for overnight camp there is not a magic age for when a child is ready for their first over-night camping experience. According to child neurophysiologist Dr. Pete Stavinoha, “Parents need to think about their child’s level of maturity and ability to stay away from home for any extended period of time.” The last thing you want are pitiful homesick letters filling your mailbox or worse, a phone call from a camp director saying that little Bobby wants to come home. Stavinoha recommends a few overnight “practice runs” before the camp send-off takes place. “Before sending your child to camp, you might try a weekend visit to the home of a relative or friend who has children of comparable ages.” Consider how your child responds to these dress rehearshals. “Take into account how your child reacts during a sleepover at a friend’s house. Is your child playing contentedly when it’s time to go home, or calling you at the crack of dawn or even before going to bed? Does your child generally become anxious when you’re separated, or is your child independent by nature?”
Stavinoha also suggests taking a clue from their kids. He says, “one of the most important considerations is whether your child expresses a desire to attend summer camp.” Some parents believe that although their first camping experience was miserable – they insist that their children embrace the notion of sleeping on the ground as a way to build character. According to Ann Sheets, National President of the American Camping Association (ACA), “a child should not be ‘sent’ to camp.” She emphatically explains, “a child should be involved in the decision making process about whether they are ready for camp and which camp they want to attend.” She believes that this decision needs to be based on their interests more than their parents’ preconceived notion of what a true camp experience should be.
For kids who are a little apprehensive about leaving and may be prone to homesickness, Ann Sheets suggests sending your child off to camp with a friend. “Explore having her attend camp with a friend and allow them spend time with each other before they go. They can talk about their upcoming experience and get excited about the adventure.” Sheets also suggests that parents stay in contact with their child while she is away. “Although some camps allow for internet communication, I still prefer the old fashioned letters and care packages. A little taste of home will make them feel connected to Mom and Dad and make them feel a little less lonely.”
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